CHANNELLED WISDOM NEWSLETTER
(Channelled from my spirit guides)
A marriage or a strong relationship is often what people aim for.
Many people do not prepare or format themselves in a way that will lead to attracting the best mate, or that will lead to being able to run a successful relationship. If you are yet to be in a relationship, or if you are in a relationship that could be improved, these are our recommendations:
Firstly, who are you? What is your true essence? What are you here to do? What are you about? If you don't fully understand who you are, it makes it difficult for the real you to be fully present in a relationship. So, step one is to work out who you really are - until you feel completely satisfied with what you have discovered. That is the fundamental building block of your life - and in this instance - of a good relationship.
We understand that this will take some time, but it is the most valuable thing that you can do going forward. When you know who you really are, it will help you more easily find the right relationship. You will give off vibes that will attract the right person to you.
If you are already in a relationship, you will then need to work out how you fit - how the real you fits into your current relationship. Does it fit? It's on a scale from ‘yes it fits completely’ to ‘no it doesn't fit at all’, and you will work out where you are on that continuum. If you are 50% or above in how well you fit, that's a good match, and you can alter the dynamics of the relationship to better suit the real you. If it's 25% or less, you probably need to look at making sizable changes. Between 25 and 50%, you need to do some thinking as to whether the changes that need to be made - by both of you - will make the relationship salvageable to a level that you would feel satisfied.
Secondly, you need to work out which needs you want to have met by a relationship. And that again, is on a scale. You may have a need for companionship, for example, or further along the scale, a really true, deep, meaningful relationship where you move together as one.
This will also take some time and cannot be done until you have worked on the first step.
Once you have worked this out, then you will need to reorganise the energy of the relationship.
Of course, your partner ideally needs to do the same too, then you can jointly work out the best way for the two real selves that you are, to work together to create a third entity which is your marriage or relationship.