CHANNELLED WISDOM NEWSLETTER
(Channelled from my spirit guides)
As many of you would say, “Welcome to the club!”
Why have you – ultimately - chosen to put yourself in the position of experiencing being belittled?
It probably doesn't feel like you've chosen it, but at some level you have, and you have done this in order to give yourself the opportunity to learn, to grow, and to develop. If you don't learn from it, you give yourself the lesson again, and it becomes slightly harder each time to feel that you can move past this. But you can. You haven't chosen to have this kind of challenge without having brought through the ability to deal with it.
You may have a soul contract with someone that they belittle you … a lot. And they're doing it extremely well; they're pushing all your buttons. However, each time your button is pushed, it's an opportunity for you to dig deep into the strength you have brought through, and for you to start moving it upwards until it becomes apparent - until it starts to play a role in your everyday life. It's there; it may be hidden, but it is possible to bring it out. And when you have brought it out, the world can seem a different place.
By not bringing it out, you're not using the full force of your abilities to live your purpose and do what you are here to do.
Your human self may think that the person belittling you has all the power. They do not.
So how do you do it? Either on your own, or with the help of someone else - perhaps a friend, family member, colleague, or a professional - spend a good amount of time looking into the real strengths that you have brought through. They may have emerged from time to time, or they may not have emerged at all. But the fact that you are being belittled means you have brought through strengths to be able to deal with this. And your first step is to become aware of those strengths, even if they haven't been used or haven't been honed or developed. They are there.
Let's say you feel your ability to deal with this may be 20%. Once you are aware that you possess those strengths, then you take baby steps. What beliefs could you grow and what actions could you take that would allow you to deal with this at 22%? And then after that, 25%? And so on. Small baby steps.
As your energy changes the energy of the person who is belittling you has to change. It has to. They will fight against it, but they will have to change their energy because how your energy and their energy interact is now different.
Believe you can do it; take baby steps; and call on us for help.